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How Do YOU Define Yourself Lizzie Velasquez at TEDxAustinWomen

In a time when beauty is defined by supermodels, success is defined by wealth, and fame is deified by how many followers you have on social media, Lizzie Velasquez asks the question how do you define yourself? Once labeled, “The Worlds Ugliest Woman,” Lizzie decided to turn things around and create her own definitions of what she defines as beauty and happiness.


Spectatoring: the tendency to observe oneself during sex

Relax! Easier said than done, I know, but it’s worth a try, I think! If they’re with you, it’s because they WANT to be with you! Is there anything you are insecure about during sex and/or in general?