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#RP @heytribs: I will hug it and love it and name it George. #selflove #loveyourbody #stophatingyourbody #SHYB

#RP @heytribs: I will hug it and love it and name it George. #selflove #loveyourbody #stophatingyourbody #SHYB

He took my hand in his, guiding my fingertips along the skin of his thighs, I could feel the softness separated by streams of pale white skin- stretchmarks- connecting and weaving throughout his skin, I was a cartographer documenting new territory, letting my fingers trace over the small lines that seamed to keep him intact…Creating interlocking puzzle pieces of skin in their wake as if without them glueing him together he’d disapear into a thousand bits and pieces, magical. He brought my face to his and whispered softly “we all have them, they’re not bad”.

katiescarlettspeaks:

I get a lot of crap for the amount of selfies I post (it’s not gonna stop fyi), but this is one of the reasons I do it for myself. Look at the top pictures- try to tell me that person was happy. I remember the moments these were taken in and I will always remember these as references for why university wasn’t right for me, why recovery is so important and why learning to take yourself and love yourself and find where you’re going is so important. I know how I want my life to go and people trying to pigeon hole my passions, or remain ignorant to my needs as a person isn’t going to help me get there.

katiescarlettspeaks:

I get a lot of crap for the amount of selfies I post (it’s not gonna stop fyi), but this is one of the reasons I do it for myself. Look at the top pictures- try to tell me that person was happy. I remember the moments these were taken in and I will always remember these as references for why university wasn’t right for me, why recovery is so important and why learning to take yourself and love yourself and find where you’re going is so important. I know how I want my life to go and people trying to pigeon hole my passions, or remain ignorant to my needs as a person isn’t going to help me get there.

katiescarlettspeaks:

Recovery looks like affirmations instead of self harm

Even when it would much easier to go the other way

Loving your body takes hard work sometimes, and we have to remind ourselves every day how powerful, wonderful and inspiring it is that we’re here surviving and moving forward.

<3 

Let’s keep trying our hardest to stop hating our bodies and learn to accept the skin we’re in, and maybe eventually LOVE IT!

START A REVOLUTION: STOP HATING YOUR BODY

You are not your body...

just-a-skinny-boy:

Your body is the precious house in which your soul resides. Tearing it down or burning it to the ground will only make you homeless, vulnerable, and afraid.

Instead, take some time to build yourself up. Clean the windows of your perspective and let the sunshine of beauty in this world shine in.

Empty the garbage in your mind by ridding yourself of rotten negative thoughts.

Paint the walls of your memories with new experiences or knowledge.

Decorate the rooms of your heart with positive thoughts, joyful people, and intense passion.

Be a better you from the inside out, instead of breaking yourself from the outside going in. You deserve to love yourself.

You deserve to feel at home.

katiescarlettspeaks:

The wonderful Blogger/Youtuber meghantonjes faced a lot of praise this week for her recent response to Instagram removing one of her photos! She responded with grace and told Instagram exactly what she thought of their removal of her booty photo, but the ignoring of thousands of other booties attached to bodies that are “allowed to be displayed publicly”. If you’d like instagram to be a place where all bums of any size can share the love, feel free to join her today and post a pic with the hashtag #bootyrevolution! 
Social media is a new booming place of acceptance, and sometimes it needs to be hit head on in the face of adversity! If you want to see more of the Meghan story check out her youtube video HERE
This booty belongs to: katiescarlettspeaks
#BOOTYREVOLUTION

START A REVOLUTION! STOP HATING YOUR BODY!

katiescarlettspeaks:

The wonderful Blogger/Youtuber meghantonjes faced a lot of praise this week for her recent response to Instagram removing one of her photos! She responded with grace and told Instagram exactly what she thought of their removal of her booty photo, but the ignoring of thousands of other booties attached to bodies that are “allowed to be displayed publicly”. If you’d like instagram to be a place where all bums of any size can share the love, feel free to join her today and post a pic with the hashtag #bootyrevolution! 

Social media is a new booming place of acceptance, and sometimes it needs to be hit head on in the face of adversity! If you want to see more of the Meghan story check out her youtube video HERE

This booty belongs to: katiescarlettspeaks

#BOOTYREVOLUTION

START A REVOLUTION! STOP HATING YOUR BODY!

stopchasingclouds:

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SPRING INTO SELF LOVE!!!

Hello my lovelies! This month I’ve decided to run a contest to help spread some light and hopefully encourage you all to love yourselves a little more! The goal for the month of May is to spread some SELF LOVE SELFIES! The winner will receive a beautiful faux leather journal with a gold inscription that says “Love Often”, as well as a selection of Fierce Warrior Stickers as well as your choice of motivational print from SWEET PEONY PRESS!

Here are the RULES:

1) Post a selfie on instagram/tumblr 

2) Caption the selfie with your favourite inspirational quote of the moment!

3) TAG IT! Use the hashtag #springintolove and tag me @ katiescarlettspeaks on instagram or @ stopchasingclouds here on tumblr! 

4) Follow my tumblr, twitter, facebook, youtube and instagram.

This contest is open internationally as well so don’t be afraid to enter! Bonus entries are applied for anyone who reblogs this photoset as well.

If you have any questions ask away! RUNS TILL THE END OF MAY

(Source: katiescarlettspeaks)

stopchasingclouds:

My daughter will grow to know that her worth comes from HER and not some convoluted ideal that was constructed to destroy her!
I think having to change your intake and monitor what you consume for health reasons/illness/allergies etc is important, and if your life requires that then of course do what you need to do to fuel yourself and keep your mind and body happy and healthy.
BUT- #NoDietDay is a direct attack on the beauty industry and their advances to tell us we&#8217;re WRONG, INVALUABLE, REPLACEABLE and NOT WORTHY. No Diet Day is a revolution to start loving our bodies, and our minds and tell those who try to deter us that we ARE MORE POWERFUL.

START A REVOLUTION! STOP HATING YOUR BODY!

stopchasingclouds:

My daughter will grow to know that her worth comes from HER and not some convoluted ideal that was constructed to destroy her!

I think having to change your intake and monitor what you consume for health reasons/illness/allergies etc is important, and if your life requires that then of course do what you need to do to fuel yourself and keep your mind and body happy and healthy.

BUT- #NoDietDay is a direct attack on the beauty industry and their advances to tell us we’re WRONG, INVALUABLE, REPLACEABLE and NOT WORTHY. No Diet Day is a revolution to start loving our bodies, and our minds and tell those who try to deter us that we ARE MORE POWERFUL.

START A REVOLUTION! STOP HATING YOUR BODY!


stopchasingclouds:
positivity, encouragement and love

Sometimes we let life bog us down and day after day it just gets harder and harder. Make changes in the little things and give yourself some daily positivity to get yourself out of a funk. Little wall decals of inspirational quotes, bright colourful room decor, a good playlist that gives you life.
Don&#8217;t let daily &#8220;Blah&#8221; feelings bog you down- keep striving for positivity and love in all aspects of your lives! -Katie

stopchasingclouds:

positivity, encouragement and love

Sometimes we let life bog us down and day after day it just gets harder and harder. Make changes in the little things and give yourself some daily positivity to get yourself out of a funk. Little wall decals of inspirational quotes, bright colourful room decor, a good playlist that gives you life.

Don’t let daily “Blah” feelings bog you down- keep striving for positivity and love in all aspects of your lives! -Katie