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i’m glad you asked this question. I could only watch about 10 minutes of it before I was so disgusted I had to turn it off.
It was just a play on the same old sad stereotypes of ‘fat is unhealthy’, ‘fat is lazy’ ‘fat is disgusting’ etc. etc. etc. And it’s disappointing because South Park usually has really good commentary on popular culture.
You know what, I APPLAUD Honey Boo Boo and her family. They’re not your typical ‘attractive’ family, but they obviously love each other and they’re happy. That counts for a lot more than their education level or their weight.
The obesity epidemic is a lie. Obesity rates have stayed the same, and in some places even dropped, since 2000.
‘Obesity’ is judged by BMI, which is an invalid measure of health. Even the creator of BMI himself never wanted it to be used as a measure of health.
In 1998, the guidelines for BMI were changed. Millions of people went to bed one night being ‘normal’, and woke up ‘overweight’ according to the new standards. So all the reports you hear of, about how people are getting fatter and fatter, is actually the definition of what ‘fat’ is changing.
Fat people have no shame? Fat people have no shame? Has anyone who created that episode EVER spoken to a fat person? ANY fat person, any chubby person, hell, the majority of ‘average’ people have been ‘shamed’ for being too fat. They’ve been told over and over that they’re lazy, ugly, no one will ever love them, they’ll never get a good job, they don’t deserve nice clothes, I could go on forever.
Fat people don’t ask for special treatment, as this episode depicts. Fat people ask for equal treatment. To have the ability to do the same things normal people do. Like being comfortable in a movie theatre, or to be able to go on an airplane without paying double.  Or even more importantly, having GOOD and complete healthcare that doesn’t consist of ‘just lose weight and all your health problems will go away.’ That’s not having no shame.
There is a problem in this country, I’m not denying that. People aren’t eating well enough. People aren’t exercising enough. But you know what, that goes for thin people too. There are millions of thin people who eat junk, are sedentary, and end up with the same diabetes, hypertension, heart problems, etc. that the medical community likes to pretend only fat people can get. (Fun fact, 75% of obese people never get diabetes.)
The problem is not fat. The problem is lack of access to healthy food and exercise. THAT’S what needs to be fixed. And not by programs like Let’s Move!, which was funded by a 13.6% cut to the SNAP (food stamp) program, which means that low-income families, which are already proven to be more likely to be obese, are even less able to afford healthful food.
It’s a much, much bigger problem than the size of someone’s jeans. Regardless of someone’s size or health, NO ONE should be shamed like that. Not your body? Not your business. I’m really, really disappointed that South Park couldn’t do better. 
Love,
Amber

i’m glad you asked this question. I could only watch about 10 minutes of it before I was so disgusted I had to turn it off.

It was just a play on the same old sad stereotypes of ‘fat is unhealthy’, ‘fat is lazy’ ‘fat is disgusting’ etc. etc. etc. And it’s disappointing because South Park usually has really good commentary on popular culture.

You know what, I APPLAUD Honey Boo Boo and her family. They’re not your typical ‘attractive’ family, but they obviously love each other and they’re happy. That counts for a lot more than their education level or their weight.

Fat people have no shame? Fat people have no shame? Has anyone who created that episode EVER spoken to a fat person? ANY fat person, any chubby person, hell, the majority of ‘average’ people have been ‘shamed’ for being too fat. They’ve been told over and over that they’re lazy, ugly, no one will ever love them, they’ll never get a good job, they don’t deserve nice clothes, I could go on forever.

Fat people don’t ask for special treatment, as this episode depicts. Fat people ask for equal treatment. To have the ability to do the same things normal people do. Like being comfortable in a movie theatre, or to be able to go on an airplane without paying double.  Or even more importantly, having GOOD and complete healthcare that doesn’t consist of ‘just lose weight and all your health problems will go away.’ That’s not having no shame.

There is a problem in this country, I’m not denying that. People aren’t eating well enough. People aren’t exercising enough. But you know what, that goes for thin people too. There are millions of thin people who eat junk, are sedentary, and end up with the same diabetes, hypertension, heart problems, etc. that the medical community likes to pretend only fat people can get. (Fun fact, 75% of obese people never get diabetes.)

The problem is not fat. The problem is lack of access to healthy food and exercise. THAT’S what needs to be fixed. And not by programs like Let’s Move!, which was funded by a 13.6% cut to the SNAP (food stamp) program, which means that low-income families, which are already proven to be more likely to be obese, are even less able to afford healthful food.

It’s a much, much bigger problem than the size of someone’s jeans. Regardless of someone’s size or health, NO ONE should be shamed like that. Not your body? Not your business. I’m really, really disappointed that South Park couldn’t do better. 

Love,

Amber

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redefiningbodyimage:

As I’ve been receiving and answering questions, I’ve noticed one question being asked more and more above all others.

In short: “HOW do I deal with fat shaming?”

Part one of this video series covers my number one way to deal - Going on a “Media Diet”

I’ll be continuing this series at a random pace that will be dictated by my life, schedule, habits, and ever-changing states of mind. Nevertheless, the planned topic for subsequent vlogs will focus on how to deal with fat shaming in public and online spaces.

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To *EVERY* person following (and not), of *EVERY* size, shape, gender orientation, etc

juicyjacqulyn:

Your body is fucking PERFECT. You are so incredibly beautiful. Some of you know this, some of you are learning, and some of you still aren’t ready to believe. 

I SWEAR TO YOU, you are amazing, and you body is just as glorious. 

Those that seek to shame you, are often misguided, ill informed, ignorant, and insecure.

YOUR opinion of you is the ONLY opinion that matters.

You are wonderful just the way you are. 

*Massive hugs all around*

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moonblossom:

bittergrapes:

annieelainey:

I love it when I check on an old post and people are reblogging it with health troll comments.

I don’t understand how it’s so hard for so many people to grasp:

HEALTH LOOKS DIFFERENT ON EVERY BODY. YOU CAN BE FAT AND HEALTHY, YOU CAN BE SKINNY AND HEALTHY, ETC.

Even if someone is sick, living an unhealthy lifestyle, etc, what makes you think that you should publicly scorn them about it? What makes you think they shouldn’t be living in the present moment and feeling happy? Why would you want to take that away? What about their body and their confidence and/or joy make you so uncomfortable? 

“I am going to assume that you are unhealthy because of your body shape. LOL, HAVE FUN DYING OF A HEART ATTACK!”

What the hell is that?

END BODY SHAMING. END BODY POLICING.

My father has been a ‘healthy’ weight most of his life. 

He had a heart attack at 43 years old.

My mother has been an ‘unhealthy’ weight most of her life.

She has never had any major health issues, has sprung back from several broken bones with no serious complications, and continues a strenuous and demanding career.

Fuck body shaming.

A few years back, a good friend of mine was in the 400lb range, and I weighed about 145lb, at 5’11ish. She now weighs less than I do, but that’s not relevant to my point. 

At the point when our weights were thus, guess which of us had the following:

  • Tachycardia
  • Hypertension
  • High cholesterol
  • Arthritis & chronic back and leg pain
  • Random attacks of syncope (fainting)
  • Yearly cases of pneumonia
  • (amongst other things I am currently too lazy to list)

If you guessed me, you win a cookie!

Weight is absolutely not an obvious determining factor of health.

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annieelainey:

I love it when I check on an old post and people are reblogging it with health troll comments.

I don’t understand how it’s so hard for so many people to grasp:

HEALTH LOOKS DIFFERENT ON EVERY BODY. YOU CAN BE FAT AND HEALTHY, YOU CAN BE SKINNY AND HEALTHY, ETC.

Even if someone is sick, living an unhealthy lifestyle, etc, what makes you think that you should publicly scorn them about it? What makes you think they shouldn’t be living in the present moment and feeling happy? Why would you want to take that away? What about their body and their confidence and/or joy make you so uncomfortable? 

“I am going to assume that you are unhealthy because of your body shape. LOL, HAVE FUN DYING OF A HEART ATTACK!”

What the hell is that?

END BODY SHAMING. END BODY POLICING.

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